We all have our own standards and biases that we feel are acceptable to ourselves and others. But why do we feel so pressured about looks and body image? I feel like they’re tiptoeing around the greater issue here. The thing is that fit and aesthetically pleasing men will always largely be what the majority of the community will want. As men, we are much more attracted to the visual. If someone loves you just for a six-pack or the size of your Biceps or just how you look then they are shallow and they have no idea of the real you inside, On the other hand, I’ve known people who are so good looking that all they love is themselves, My advice to anyone is never go by looks alone get to know the real person inside and never judge a book by its cover.